Whats New Pussycat?

Cats have it Sussed! Life that is, and how to make it work for them. They don't do buts, they do what they want to do and they are not bothered by how anyone takes it! They lie in the sun when they are cold and they lie in the shade when they get too warm. They lie on their own away from others when they need space. They play and have fun when they are in the mood. They eat when they wish and not unless they are hungry. They are single minded and focused on achieving their desires and know how to manipulate others to get what they want. They are instinctually focused on survival and having their needs met.

Could you benefit from adopting this modus operandi in your life? What is causing you difficulty at present.

Cats are motivated towards pleasure, how are you motivated? We Homo Sapiens are either motivated “Away from Pain” or “Towards Pleasure” – are you aware of your motivation strategy? Think of something you achieved in your life, did you achieve it because you avoided pain or because you wanted to experience the pleasure of winning? Is there something you wish to achieve but haven't to date? Now what you need to do is to write down the step by step process of what you have achieved, and repeat the steps for what you wish to achieve. It's not rocket science, it's simple model achievement on other success in your life to date. If a strategy works, the subject matter can differ, the strategy still works. If you are having difficulty, and cannot seem to succeed, then there is what we call a “Secondary Gain” at work in your psyche, which needs to be addressed before your brain will agree to the change. That's where a Life Coach can help.